Filey, yesterday. This time we parked up at the country reserve and walked down, which meant crossing the Ravine on the lovely Church Bridge. Nice because this brings you in to the town via the old fishermen’s cottages:
From there, it’s a short walk to the Museum. Passing this:
I did spare a thought for these lovely gents, photographed at the Cliff Top – although I’m not sure exactly where this is, as apparently much of the older buildings in Filey were demolished in the 1960s.
I photo’d all the ganseys on display in the museum (many of the pics too shaky to share here, but good enough for me to chart from!)
And there does seem to be emerging a generic Filey-esque gansey pattern but with some variations, of course. More of which at a future date, after I’ve charted and documented all I can!
I have a feeling that is another gansey myth, that broad assertion that you could tell which village a man was from, by his gansey. Because knitters get bored. Knitters riff. Knitters evolve paterns. Knitters nick things they like from other knitters who may have worked seasonally, in their area, etc etc. The gansey on the dummy in the museum (‘Bert’, above) was, on close examination, very refined in terms of the patterns used – moreso than many in the Filey old photos – and yet had some weird and interesting things going on at the shoulder saddle, and a slightly different front to back that spoke to me of a freethinking knitter. More of that in a future post as I need some time to digest and figure it all out…
We spent the day on the beach after I’d ‘done’ the museum, and saw what has been a common sight in Filey since the middle of the last Century – the cobles being pulled in by tractor:
And finally, back to the car up the Ravine, and a slight detour to St Oswald’s church to search out mariners’ gravestones. (Morbid I know but it appeals to the genealogist in me). Monumental masons in coastal areas do seem to have had a more…pictrial approach than some of those inland, that’s for sure. I hope descendents of these mariners don’t mind me doing this but I like to document what I find and better still, share… Here’s a couple. We found a efw ‘Lost At Sea’ memorial inscriptions and some where they appear to have died in old age or on dry land, but have an achor or sextant carved on the stone to record the fact they were mariners.
John Cowling was more elusive to find than his father, Edward, who according to the inscription died 189-, aged 6-? Looking at the 1891 Census, for Ocean Place, Filey, I found:
“Edward Cowling, Head, Married, 69, Fisherman , WHERE BORN: Filey, Yorkshire”. We can be reasonably confident this might be the man in the inscription, as the headstone records “ELIZABETH HIS WIFE” who died aged ? in 1902. This Edward Cowling of Ocean Place is living with:
“Elizabeth Cowling, Wife, Married, 60, WHERE BORN : Filey, Yorkshire.”
It looks like Edward and Elizabeth were predeceased by their son, John W., and the inscription of a date for him is too worn to read, but it appears to say he was 22 years old.
Moving back through time, in 1881, Elizabeth can be found without Edward, in Filey, recorded as ‘Married’ and with ‘Fisherman’s Wife’ written and then crossed out, by her name. Her age is given as 50. This looks likely to be the same Elizabeth. She is living with her children; Jane, aged 13; Sarah, 11; and son, 6 year old Edmund Sayers Cowling. All the children were born in Filey. Her mother in law (‘Bertha Sayers’ in 1891) is here down as ‘Bothia Sayers’, a ‘Fisherman’s Widow’. They live at Reynolds’ Yard. (‘Yard’ usually denotes tenements). Sayers appears to be Elizabeth’s maiden name.
Meanwhile in 1871, Edward was onboard ‘The George Peabody’, a 40 tonne cod fishing ‘Dandy’ out of Hull. On the Census night, it was docked at Grimsby and crewed by five Filey men.
The Census has given us a birthdate for Edward around 1833, and sure enough, IGI confirms an “Edward Cooling” was baptised 4.2.1833, in Filey, son of John and Helen.
Certainly 1871 saw Edward on a vessel – the ‘Sarah’, out of Scarborough, listed as a ‘yawl in the fishing trade’ and docked at Albert Docks, Hull on the night of the Census. Edward was listed as married, a ‘Mate’ and age given as 28, birthplace Filey. The crew of 5 are all from Filey.
Travel back another decade in time to 1861, and Edward is at home in King St, Filey. He is 28, married and born in Filey so this is our man. But… wife is Margaret also 28, also born Filey. They have only one child, Elizabeth A., who is 2. This suggests our John W., may not have been born yet and may be a child of the first or the second marriage.
Realising Edward had remarried at some point between 1861 and 1881, I had to go look for the wife in 1871. For this date, I couldn’t find a Margaret but did find Elizabeth, 38, married and living at Mariners’ Place – another tenement (the enumerator had written ‘Yard’ then crossed it out). Along with Bothia Sayers (born Staithes), step-daughter Elizabeth aged 12, daughters Mary Jane, 3; and Sarah, 6 months….. and son John, 4. All born Filey. It looks likely that this is ‘our’ John buried at St Oswald’s. He must have been born in 1867 0r 8. Meaning Margaret died between 1861 and 1867.
I have no marriages for Edward, either to Margaret or Elizabeth on the IGI. Not too surprising, as post around 1840, it gets more patchy and erratic. Plus it’s more than possible they were non conformists anyway – if churchgoers at all. I drew a blank for his marriages on Free BMD as well.
Free BMD gave me a John Cowling born in Scarborough district, in the second quarter of 1868.
(I will check out the Bishops’ Transcripts of the Filey parish records when I get a chance). If John died aged 22, he must have died around 1890. The date on the gravestone is hard to make out, but certainly it could well be 1890.
Bothia Sayers would have taught her daughter Staithes patterns, so we can guess Edward and John may have had ganseys showing this influence.
I wanted to find Elizabeth Sayers in 1861, when Edward was still married to Margaret. Sure enough she was at Moon Place, Filey, with her parents, John Fisherman, and Bothia. Interestingly, her surname was Elizabeth Lane, – she was a widow. So it was a second marriage for both Edward and Elizabeth and John was the child of that second marriage. She had a son, Robert Lane, aged 5, so she had been widowed in the past 5 years presumably, in 1861.
In the 1851 Census, Elizabeth is only 18, not married yet and living with her parents, on Queen Street.
Edward’s parents are still alive in 1851 and the 18 year old Edward lives with them – John and Ellen Cowling (assuming that ‘Ellen’ is interchangeable with ‘Helen). He is a 42 year old fisherman, living at Stephensons’ Lane.
I can’t find a maritime disaster reported in the British Library’s 19thC Newspapers Online for a John Cowling (or variant name) in 1890. But I did find a John Cowling and his son, the vessel’s ‘boy’, being drowned when their boat was capsized in 1844 at the same time a Scarborough boat was lost:
“… the yawl, ‘Jerome’, of Filey, Anderson Cammish, Master, was coming in for the harbour , when struck by heavy seas, which capsized them… the crews, ten in number, were all instantly drowned… the names of those in the Filey boat are: Anderson Cammish, Thomas Pashby, Thomas Wiseman, John Cowling and his son (a boy)…”
If ‘our’ John Cowling died at sea in 1890, it looks remarkably like a great uncle, also John Cowling, and an uncle, died in 1844. Proof – not that it’s needed – of the terrible risks these men took, and their absolute bravery.
[The Hull Packet, 1.3.1844].
Knowing this, I couldn’t resist having one last look, for the Cowlings, John Sr and Jr, in 1841. On Stephensons’ Lane still, there they were. John and Ellen (Here ‘Eleanor’ which suggests the IGI’s ‘Helen’ is inaccurate). With 8 year old Edward. The IGI gives us a 1.5.1808 birthdate for ‘John Couling’ of Filey – parents William and Dorothy (which means the John that died in 1844 is most likely John Sr’s brother). A William Cowling is born in 1778, to a Thomas Cowling of Filey. and a John Cowling born in 1772 in Filey also to a Thomas Cowling. It looks likely they were brothers, and the William who was the great grandfather of John Cowling who died in 1890, is the brother of the John Cowling who lost his life in the harbour at Scarborough, in 1844. The words ‘DROWNED AT SEA’ are just legible on John’s gravestone. It looks like he shared the same fate as a great uncle, and uncle.
Sadly, my own inland mariner ancestors have no surviving memorials. Which is what impelled me to uncover just a little more of the story behind this weatherbeaten stone – before its story is as lost to the salt air as John was lost to the sea.
And finally, what a brilliant weathervane on the church: